By 23 months, you may start to wonder: Is my toddler ready for the potty? Some kids begin showing signs around this age—but readiness isn’t about a magic number. Every child develops at their own pace, and it’s totally okay if your little one isn’t quite there yet.
Still, this stage can be the perfect time to gently introduce the concept of using the potty—no pressure, just awareness. Let’s explore the signs of readiness and how to ease into this important milestone with confidence and calm.
🚽 What Does “Toilet Ready” Look Like?
Toilet readiness involves physical, emotional, and cognitive development. Here are signs your child might be getting there:
✅ Physical signs:
- Stays dry for at least 2 hours at a time
- Can walk to and sit on a potty independently
- Has regular bowel movements
- Shows discomfort when diapers are dirty
✅ Cognitive signs:
- Understands and follows simple instructions
- Can communicate the need to go—through words, gestures, or expressions
- Imitates adult behavior (yes, even in the bathroom!)
✅ Emotional signs:
- Expresses interest in using the potty
- Shows pride in achievements (“I did it!”)
- Demonstrates a desire for independence
Note: Not all signs need to be present. Some kids might show one or two at first—that’s a great place to start.
🌱 Gentle Ways to Introduce the Potty
Even if your child isn’t fully ready to ditch diapers, you can lay the groundwork in a fun and low-stress way.
👀 1. Let them observe
Let your toddler watch you or older siblings using the toilet. It’s one of the best ways for them to learn.
🧸 2. Choose a kid-friendly potty
Get a small potty or potty seat with a step stool. Let them explore it, sit on it (fully clothed at first), and get comfortable.
📖 3. Read books or watch toddler-friendly videos about potty training
There are tons of cute stories that explain the process in a playful way.
🕓 4. Start a potty routine
Invite your child to sit on the potty at natural times: after waking up, before bath, or after meals. Keep it casual—no pressure to “go.”
🧼 What About Accidents?
Accidents will happen. They’re part of the process!
Stay calm and positive:
- Avoid punishments or disappointment.
- Say something simple like, “Oops, that’s okay! Let’s try again next time.”
- Praise effort, not just success: “You sat on the potty—great job!”
💬 Should You Start Now or Wait?
Some toddlers are ready to start practicing at 23 months, while others might not be fully ready until 2.5 or even 3 years old. There’s no rush. You’re not behind. You’re just tuning into your child’s timeline.
If your child:
- resists the potty,
- doesn’t show interest,
- or gets upset about trying…
…it’s totally okay to pause and try again in a few weeks or months.
❤️ Final Thoughts
Toilet learning is a journey, not a race. By Month 23, you’re just laying the first bricks of a new habit. With patience, positive vibes, and a flexible attitude, you can help your toddler feel proud, capable, and curious about this big-kid step.
Trust your child. Trust the process. And most of all—celebrate the small wins!
